💘 Finding Love in 2026: A Valentine’s Day Letter to All the Singles

Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples — it’s for everyone who believes in connection, joy, and the possibility of love in all its forms. Whether you’re single, thriving, searching, or somewhere in between (hi, same 😌), 2026 is a beautiful moment to make love and partnership part of your life intention.

And honestly? That’s exactly why I’m so excited to bring everyone together at the end of this month for a Vision Board Party, led by my dear friend and success coach Melanie Klein — because setting intentions for love, life, and connection is one of the most powerful things we can do.

This year, finding partnership isn’t just a romantic hope for me — it’s actually part of my business plan. Not because love is a transaction, but because when your personal life is aligned, everything else rises with it. That’s where the idea of a life list comes in: the dreams, relationships, adventures, and purpose that become the rocket fuel behind the life (and career) you’re building.

So here’s to love, laughter, and everything along the way until you find it. ❤️

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🧡 Traditional Ways to Meet Someone

Sometimes the most classic paths are still the most effective:

Meet Through Friends & Social Circles

Let your friends know you’re open to being set up. A trusted friend already understands your values, your energy, and what might actually work for you.

Dinner parties, birthdays, casual hangs — chemistry often sparks when you’re simply living your life.

Blind Dates

Literally ask your friends. When you say it out loud and have people who love you help you make it happen — they will. Again, it’s all about intentionality and goal setting (just like buying your dream home).

Work & Everyday Life

People still meet through shared routines: the gym, coffee shops, dog walks, hobby groups… repeated proximity builds real connection.

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📱 Modern Ways to Find Love (Apps, Speed Dating & Matchmaking)

In 2026, dating is a mix of technology, intention, and curated experiences. Here are some of the best modern options:

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Dating Apps

Apps remain one of the most common ways people meet today — and the key is knowing which ones match your vibe.

Popular apps for serious dating:

• Hinge — Designed to be deleted, great for relationship-minded people
  https://hinge.co
• Bumble — Empowering structure, strong for straight and queer matches
  https://bumble.com
• Match.com / eHarmony — More traditional, long-term focused platforms
  https://match.com
  https://eharmony.com

LGBTQ+ specific apps:

• Scruff / Grindr — Often more hook-up leaning, but you’d be surprised… it’s also about quality and how you use them. I’ve met some of my dearest friends on these apps (and a few have even become clients lol).
  https://www.scruff.com
  https://www.grindr.com
• HER — Designed for queer women and non-binary folks
  https://weareher.com

The real trick with apps is intention: write an honest profile, stay open, and don’t confuse volume with compatibility.

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Matchmaking Services

If apps feel overwhelming or shallow, professional matchmaking can be an amazing alternative.

• Tawkify (one I’ve personally explored) offers curated matches with a more personal touch.
  https://www.tawkify.com

One thing to note: matchmaking services can be incredibly helpful… but also pricey, so they tend to be best if you’re ready to invest in the process.

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Speed Dating & In-Person Events

Speed dating is having a real moment again — and honestly, it’s refreshing.

In LA, events like those hosted by Next Fun Thing are fun, welcoming, and inclusive, with options for both straight and gay daters.
https://www.nextfunthing.com

And the best part? Speed dating is super fun and relatively inexpensive — it’s a great night out whether you meet “the one” or not.

You may even just make a new friend…

I’ve found three that way. 😊

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🌿 Holistic & Unexpected Ways to Find Love

Sometimes love shows up when you’re not forcing it — but when you’re expanding your life.

Consider:

• Wellness retreats
• Meditation or sound bath communities
• Volunteering
• Travel groups
• Hobby-based meetups

The goal isn’t “find someone immediately”… it’s “build a life where connection can happen.”

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✨ Vision Boarding Love: Making Intention Real in 2026

One of the most powerful prep steps you can take before dating is getting clear on what you want your love story to feel like.

That’s why I’m so excited to bring everyone together at the end of February 2026 for a Vision Board Party, led by my dear friend and colleague Melanie Klein, an incredible success coach.
(You can learn more about Melanie here:)
https://www.melaniecklein.com/

Last year was such a meaningful experience for everyone who attended: warm energy, great conversations, big dreams, and people leaving with real clarity about what they wanted to create.

We’re still firming up the final details, but it will be happening at the end of this month — and I’d love to have you there.

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✍️ Personal Prep Work for Love

Before you swipe, RSVP, or say yes to a date… start with yourself.

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1. Write a Partner Manifesto

Get clear on what you want.

And honestly? It’s okay to be as granular — even a little “superficial” — as you need to be.

If you know you want someone adventurous, someone soft, someone with ambition…

Or hey — if you need a man with tattoos — put it down.

If you want help, I have a Partner Manifesto guide and I’d be happy to share mine — just reach out.

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2. Journal with Intention

Journaling is one of the best ways to uncover patterns, desires, and what you’re truly ready for.

Rob Dial (The Mindset Mentor) always talks about the power of asking the right questions — and you can even ask AI to help generate prompts.
https://robdial.com

Try:

• What does partnership mean to me now?
• What patterns am I ready to break?
• How do I want love to feel in my daily life?

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3. Make a Plan

Love doesn’t have to be passive.

If partnership is a priority in 2026, treat it like one.

Literally timeblock the work — the dates, the apps, the vision exercises.

I like to treat myself to a working lunch at the Polo Lounge at the Beverly Hills Hotel, maybe a glass of rosé, and get into the mood and groove of envisioning what I’m calling in.

Whether it’s apps, friends, professional services, or intentional experiences — the magic is in showing up consistently.

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💌 A Valentine’s Message to You

Whether you’re coupled, thrupled, dating, healing, or fully single — we are all creatures of connection.

Valentine’s Day is a reminder that love exists in many forms: friendship, community, family, self-love… and yes, romantic partnership too.

If you want to make 2026 the year love finds you, don’t just hope — make a plan. Try something new. Say yes to being seen.

And don’t forget: our upcoming Vision Board Party at the end of this month, led by Melanie Klein, will be the perfect space to set those intentions alongside amazing people.

Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️
And as always, feel free to reach out if you have questions about any of the apps, events, or services I’ve tried.